There are many reasons why relationships that once looked like they would last forever suddenly fall apart. The truth is that relationships don’t suddenly fall apart it is something that happens over a long period of time and often before a two people have ever met.
I have found that most relationship problems can be traced back to low levels of self-esteem in one or both people.There is a direct correlation between the quality of your loving relationships and your level of self-esteem. You can only like yourself to the degree in which you fully accept yourself, and your level of self-esteem is largely determined by how much you are accepted by others.
Here are the most common factors that I have found that seem to lie at the root of most arguments, disagreements and divorces:
Reasons why relationship are so complexed....
1: They don't understand one another.
2: They can't get along.
3: Both have foul tempers and don't give in to one another.
4: Self-Pity
5: No trust
6: Quarrels and not solving it.
7: Blaming the opposite and not having self-reflection on oneself.
8" being too proud of yourself...
9! WomaniZe around!
10! flirt!!!!
Well, i guess these are the points that you readers will often see.
Or shall i say to some couples faced...
K, look at the first few all these can be resolved if you really love tht person and willinging to change on your own behalf without ppl forcing you to.
But LOOK AT the last few!
Like O.M.G!
For people who are slot in the last few category...
might as well don't be involved in a relationship.
Being slot into tht category , is best as well go to Geylang and find one.
Better still, find those at Changi! Know why?!
cuz they are jambu and gives the best services for guys....
Seriously, i just can't stand people who are acting like tht...
TO PEOPLE WHO ARE WOMANIZERS AND MANIZERS...
: HAVE YOU ASKED YOURSELF WHY ARE YOU BEHAVING THIS WAY...?
IN WHAT WAY HAS THE OPPOSITE SEX NOT SATISFY YOU...
IF SO DO SPEAK OUT TO MAKE THINGS BETTER...
AND NOT FIND SOMEONE ELSE WHEN U HAVE THE PERFECT PERSON INFRONT OF YOU ALREADY....
IF YOU PPL STILL THINKS U ARE RIGHT...
THEN ALL I HAVE TO SAY I FEEL SO SAaaaaaadDDD for yOU... SO SAD THT YOU HAVE TO BE THIS WAY...
TRASHING SOMEONE WHO CAN BE SOOO MUCH BETTER FOR YOU...
yOU WAN THE BEST FOR YOURSELF?
EVER THOUGH OF THE OTHER SIDE?
PEOPLE WILL DESPIsE !YOU THE WAY YOU ARE...
WANNA BE IN IT?
YOU HAVE TO BE YOURSELF...
AND NOT TRY TO FIT IN WITH PEOPLE WHOM PEOPLE WANT YOU TO BE.
I FEEL SAD FOR YOU AND AT THE SAME TIME ALL THE BEST FOR YOU...
May GOD BLESS UR BLISSFUL LIFE FULL OF WOMANIZING AROUND..=D
Well, i'm not refering to guys alone but girls too... Ya know...
Being to love someone is truely a good feeling.
But at the same time, if life really trash you out because of what happened...
it doesn't have to put a stop but to resolve it first...
like what its said, "it takes 2 hands to clap"
and no one is perfect.
So if your finding someone perfect.
Get a barbie doll instead, where she has nice long hair and flawless skin....
Comments to me if i am wrong....
or say your point of views...
i'd like to hear tht...
As for me,
i am happy with what i have now..
I do not know what holds the future for us....
but for all i know is tht i am faithful am being loved for someone who loved me for who i am.
As much as i love him too....
That is called HAPPINESS....
=D
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